- 40% of singles open to relocating for love, but 70% of parents prefer them to stay in India
- Only 4% will let parents solely choose their life partner, signalling greater autonomy in marriage decisions
Mumbai, 19th February 2025: Jeevansathi’s Modern Matchmaking Report 2025, based on insights from over 21,000 respondents, highlights shifting relationship preferences among Indian singles. The findings indicate that men prioritize love and romance, while women focus more on compatibility. The report also sheds light on evolving attitudes toward marriage, financial stability, and parental influence in partner selection.
According to the survey, 47% of men prioritize love and romance while choosing a partner, compared to 29% of women. Instead, 39% of women prioritize compatibility, while only 11% cite financial stability as a key factor while choosing a partner. Regional differences also emerged, with singles in Delhi and Mumbai valuing romance, whereas those in Bangalore emphasized compatibility.
The report also found that 40% of singles are open to moving abroad for the right partner, reflecting a shift in traditional expectations. However, 70% of parents prefer their children to marry in India or eventually return. The trend varies across cities, with Mumbai, Pune and Bangalore respondents more open to marrying an NRI partner, while Delhi singles show a stronger preference for people settled in India.
Rohan Mathur, Chief Business Officer, Jeevansathi, said, “Indian singles today are reshaping relationship norms, prioritizing compatibility, and personal choice over traditional expectations. Jeevansathi’s Modern Matchmaking Report 2025 reflects this evolving mind-set, highlighting a growing preference for love that aligns with individual values rather than societal pressures. As a trusted matchmaking platform, we remain committed to empowering singles to help them make meaningful connections and informed decisions.”
Singles under 27 believe 27-30 years is the ideal age to marry. However, older respondents and many parents said that marriage should happen when individuals find the right partner, indicating a more flexible approach to marital timelines. The survey highlights a growing expectation for financial equality in wedding expenses. About 72% of singles believe costs should be shared between partners, while only 17% think the one desiring a grand wedding should bear the cost. Parents also support this shift, signalling a move away from traditional financial burdens on one side of the family.
While parents remain trusted advisors, decision-making power now largely rests with singles. Only 4% of respondents stated that their parents would solely choose their life partner, reinforcing the increasing autonomy of individuals in marriage-related decisions. Attitudes toward astrology in matchmaking continue to evolve. One in three Delhi respondents still consider kundli matching essential, while Mumbai singles prioritize personal compatibility over astrological alignment.
Modern relationships are about balance, finding love while staying true to personal goals and values. As these priorities evolve, Jeevansathi continues to help people find meaningful connections that fit their unique journey.
